Well Darklings,
It's a good thing Sis and I did not go to the County Fair yesterday, the temp hit 106 and I believe Death Valley had a record 137 degrees farinhight (did I spell that right?)
Yes Underground for Tea I hope it cools down soon as well, I have one fan just on Belladonna and from time to time have taken a wet face cloth to her tummy and head, ice cubes in her water. She barely touches her food its so hot, not that I blame her.
The weather people say for our area it will go up again on Tuesday and then start cooling down by Thursday. The house is so hot, and I remembered when Doyle are Marissa's brother were up in the attic a few month's ago they informed me it was not insulated. That is going to be the next house project, but I'm going to wait until Fall, right now I can't get a man in nor would I want to subject any human being to such insufferable miserableness.
One good thing, Doyle is flying in tonight he said he'd call when he's landed and gathered his luggage so we can pick him up, a good thing it was a striaght flight no transfers or anything like that. And he's been warned about the BART situation. But fortunately he'll have the next few days off.
I could only do laundry, wash and line dry the clothes, its so warm they dry in an hour or less. All Sis and I have been doing is just the necessary things and then just relaxing reading, keeping cool, listening to classical music.
But with the heat I've been getting up early just before Dawn breaking to take in the coolness and water the planets and do the same in the evening, Sis helps out as well.
My cleaning lady has been ill with the heat and I told her to not worry to just get well. Not that there is much to do, even I can run the vacume on the rugs that need it. And most of the time when it's too hot to be indoors we sit outside on the back porch in the shade and catch the random cool breeze.
Poor Brian is exhausted with the heat as well, he had several interviews this last week and hopefully one of them will prove fruitfull. He said that each employer said that in the event of a strike and if he got hired they would be very accomidating about the communt if their employees were stuck in traffic.
None of us wanted to cook so we ordered Chinese, Brian has just returned with our order and we are all going to eat on the back porch, I have some "Ceasar's" Dog food for Belladonna that I've been keeping cold in the frige, I hope she'll eat it, if not then I'll toss it. I don't want her to get ill.
And if the strike happens tomorrow, well I won't have to go in until 5 p.m. and work till midnight, we're all on short hours because of this, but full pay and I'm being picked up with two others in our car pool. This reverse communite better work, because tomorrow will be hell.
Here's hoping for the best and praying for tempetures to go down to the mid-70's.
Later Darklings
Sunday, June 30, 2013
Saturday, June 29, 2013
Of further updates on the BART strike~~~~
Well Darklings,
The possible picture is not going to be pretty, not only will BART strike, and AC Transit in sympathy, but the City of Oakland employees are going to be striking at the same time!!!
I am convinced that the heat has driven people mad.
All three agencies striking at the same time starting on the same day, no one talking to the other, no one steppping in to demand a 60 day cooling down period, no one mediating.
The BART employees union showed up for a meeting with BART leaders but BART leaders were not there, claiming they were talking to the Union via mediators, but the Union is saying no one talked to them.
My question is who is lying? BART employees are saying the had their wages cut by 27 % but they are paid on an average of $85,000 a year. And that is with a 27% reduction? The Union want BART to pay for full medical and full retirement without the employees paying into it at all.
I always said if you do a good job your pay would be comiserate to your performance, but I've had to pay into my retirement and into my medical a portion of my wages. I see no reason that the BART employees should be so privledge.
I'm not going to even get into AC Transit, theirs is just a sympathy strike although S.F. Muni is stepping up to the plate and putting on more buses and such for the City of San Francisco.
And I'm not even sure what is the City of Oakland employees situation, espeically when almost everyone I know have not had a raise in 4 to 5 years and are just dealing with it because of the economy, which inspite of all the so called good predictions is still horrible, with still too many people out of work.
Oh Darklings, I better calm down, I'm getting too overheated about this.
On a different front, the temperature is going to get warmer with triple digits predicted in the inland areas.
I was up at 5:30 this morning enjoying the dawn breaking, and watering the plants, they will get watered again much later this evening. And I even went to the grocery store and did shopping for the week, although I feel that it will be cool salads and precooked meats such as grilled chicken, which I'm keeping in the refrigerator and will heat up for dinner later tonight in the microwave.
I've made a huge batch of lemonaid, of which I have bottles of it in the freezer, as well as filtered water with a hint of fresh squeezed lemon in it also refrigerated and frozen. All the windows are open and fans are going because I do not have air conditioning in the house.
And for now Belladonna is at a neighbors house being babysat and Sis is ready so we will hit the Farmers Market today for lots of fresh fruit, and then rest in the afternoon. I think we'll eat dinner in the garden this evening, Brian was kind enough the other day to put up this portable dinning tent that has misquito neting in the flat patio, so it will perfect to dine in.
Now must go.
Later Darklings
The possible picture is not going to be pretty, not only will BART strike, and AC Transit in sympathy, but the City of Oakland employees are going to be striking at the same time!!!
I am convinced that the heat has driven people mad.
All three agencies striking at the same time starting on the same day, no one talking to the other, no one steppping in to demand a 60 day cooling down period, no one mediating.
The BART employees union showed up for a meeting with BART leaders but BART leaders were not there, claiming they were talking to the Union via mediators, but the Union is saying no one talked to them.
My question is who is lying? BART employees are saying the had their wages cut by 27 % but they are paid on an average of $85,000 a year. And that is with a 27% reduction? The Union want BART to pay for full medical and full retirement without the employees paying into it at all.
I always said if you do a good job your pay would be comiserate to your performance, but I've had to pay into my retirement and into my medical a portion of my wages. I see no reason that the BART employees should be so privledge.
I'm not going to even get into AC Transit, theirs is just a sympathy strike although S.F. Muni is stepping up to the plate and putting on more buses and such for the City of San Francisco.
And I'm not even sure what is the City of Oakland employees situation, espeically when almost everyone I know have not had a raise in 4 to 5 years and are just dealing with it because of the economy, which inspite of all the so called good predictions is still horrible, with still too many people out of work.
Oh Darklings, I better calm down, I'm getting too overheated about this.
On a different front, the temperature is going to get warmer with triple digits predicted in the inland areas.
I was up at 5:30 this morning enjoying the dawn breaking, and watering the plants, they will get watered again much later this evening. And I even went to the grocery store and did shopping for the week, although I feel that it will be cool salads and precooked meats such as grilled chicken, which I'm keeping in the refrigerator and will heat up for dinner later tonight in the microwave.
I've made a huge batch of lemonaid, of which I have bottles of it in the freezer, as well as filtered water with a hint of fresh squeezed lemon in it also refrigerated and frozen. All the windows are open and fans are going because I do not have air conditioning in the house.
And for now Belladonna is at a neighbors house being babysat and Sis is ready so we will hit the Farmers Market today for lots of fresh fruit, and then rest in the afternoon. I think we'll eat dinner in the garden this evening, Brian was kind enough the other day to put up this portable dinning tent that has misquito neting in the flat patio, so it will perfect to dine in.
Now must go.
Later Darklings
Friday, June 28, 2013
Of more on the BART strike and the heat!!! Oh the Heat!!! And County Fairs~~~
Well Darklings,
Unless something or someone puts a stop to this nonsense, the BART Strike will happen, come Monday morning, there will be no way except by car (a frightening thought) and Ferry (if you find a way to get to it) to San Francisco. At least in S.F. Muni will be working but it will be overworked, over crowded and pure HELL! I pity any tourists.
I have a feeling that Taxi's will be working overtime and will be hard to find.
Yes Lucretia it is AC Transit Bus system that's striking in sympathy. ***sigh*** Why oh why can't something as simple as Disneyland's old "People Movers" be in place and it be run without strike approval. If all the "Green People" want us to use Public Transit more, come up with something better.
I am home today. Given the heat we are having the air conditioning failed at work yesterday, I was asked to come in yesterday and if possible work most of the day, several staffers were out ill. I did, until 4 p.m. and then the A.C. went.
Our Boss said "everyone go home, stay cool, you'll be paid full wages, stay home tomorrow too, you'll be paid" and the phones were put on auto messages.
So I grabbed the Ferry, caught the bus home and lo and behold there was my sister, saying "do you want to deal with gridlock and go with me to the county fair?" WHY NOT!!!
I was wearing my long sleeve cotton shirt and skirt, comfortable walking shoes, packed my straw hat and black parasol, a large bottle of water and my Nutragena SPF 100 sunblock and off we went. Got there by 6 p.m. missing the worse of the 90 plus degree heat.
As soon as we got there, Sis spotted a manufacturer of Tiki Huts and Bars, I looked at her and asked "What are you thinking?" she said that the back enclosed porch will be perfect for a Lanai, and she wants to do her yard 1950's tropical (slightly kitchy 1950's tropical). And she looked at the out door tubs, found one that is designed to be a rock waterfall.
I groaned inwardly, but then thought, "why not, she has the money that she's worked hard for, everyone is intitled to dream, so why not?"
So she gathered her information took pix's with her camera and then we continued onto the outdoor garden area's that I found them relaxing and quaint, Sis took more pictures "Ideas" she said.
We were amused by the small animal exhibits of chicks, geese, pigeons, baby turkeys, pekin ducks, rabbits and the exotic repetiles. We even had a chance before they packed up to see from one of the nature santuaries that rescues wild animals and helps preserve nature and educate children, a barn owl native to our local, he could not be released in the wild, but to see him so close up and admire his beauty was (again my favorite word) fasinating. I wanted to reach out and pet him but knew that was not a good idea, but the intellegence in his eyes, and how he took everything in and yet not be startled by people. Of course it helps to not startle him either. We looked right into each others eyes and I could see he was taking me all in, analizing me, determining if I was friend or foe.
I took one of their information sheets because I wanted to plan to make an annual or bi-annual donation to the santuary.
Of course we went through all the "hucksters area's" I bought a sign to put in the front window of my house "this house protected by Bad Ass Mutt Security", not that Belladonna is a bad ass mutt, but she does let me know if anyone is at the front or bad door.
And in another area there was a lady selling vintage jewerly, and I found several pieces of mourning jewerley that I fell in love with. But I think I really made out with a couple of purses, one was pink with black trim and silver rivets with a skull design, I purchased that for Coralline, and for myself I found a simple slim black purse with a skull clasp in black metal and black eyes, just the perfect thing for a casual evening out.
The kiddie rides, with one ride that was originally from Michael Jackson's estate, and watching the little kiddies ride the live ponies under an awning to protect them from the sun, there was another pony with it's colt resting in its own corral in plenty of ample shade, with ample water and feed, checked on with regularity by the owners. Just seeing the look of joy on the little toddler's faces riding on the ponies with either Mommy or Daddy walking next to them. The owners had set it up in such a way that it was very safe and comfortable for everyone and the ponies.
Then the 4 H exhibits of sewing, quilting, woodworking, baking, art, some of the quilts were amazing.
We had fun listening for a couple of minutes to an old-fashion country band, as we ate Big Bubba's Bar-B-Que Ribs, nothing like County Fair Food to put on the calories. And we had a chance to see a Hypnotist do her work with over a dozen people from the audience. Although we couldn't stay to see her entire program Sis got her business card. "I want to have an appointment with her to discuss hypnotheraphy" I wondered why Sis was interested in this but if there is one thing I've learned about Sis is that there is always a reason why she is going to do something.
Although very warm, the breeze that came up made everything very comfortable. And no one asked why we had snuck in Belladonna in her carry all. Well to make it even more spoiled for her, because I was so concerned about walking and carrying her in the carry all some months ago with my back injury, Doyle came across a stroller in a pet shop just for "walking one's little baby"
I know Darklings, am I spoiling her? Yes I am, but on a very hot day or any kind of long walking like Flea Markets, Farmer's Markets, Art/Wine/Crafts Festivals and things of that nature it is the perfect and humane thing to do, especially for little dogs. The only place one cannot take a dog or a pet of any kind is Zoo's, because of any airborn transmitted virus.
We walked the mid-way carnival, but I was concerned that the force of almost all the rides would hurt my back, but we had fun talking about how the rides use to look when we were children and had different names.
Then it was time to return home, and thank goodness for air conditioning in cars. I asked Sis why did she want to go to the County Fair? And she replied, "I wanted to do something nearly child-like and simple, and the County Fair was the best way to go. Maybe we'll take a picnic lunch to Tilden Park this weekend while Belladonna is being baby sat and we'll ride the Merry-go-round." I asked her if anything had gone wrong and she said "No, I'm just tired of peoples worries and things and need several mental health days" and that was as good as any explanation.
Yes My Darklings, do simple child-like things, wiggle your toes in the Sand and build Sand castles, take pictures or paint pretty images even if you are not a good painter, neighter was Grandma Moses and her works are work some money. But just do fun pleasureable things, get out of yourself and enjoy life.
Later Darklings
Unless something or someone puts a stop to this nonsense, the BART Strike will happen, come Monday morning, there will be no way except by car (a frightening thought) and Ferry (if you find a way to get to it) to San Francisco. At least in S.F. Muni will be working but it will be overworked, over crowded and pure HELL! I pity any tourists.
I have a feeling that Taxi's will be working overtime and will be hard to find.
Yes Lucretia it is AC Transit Bus system that's striking in sympathy. ***sigh*** Why oh why can't something as simple as Disneyland's old "People Movers" be in place and it be run without strike approval. If all the "Green People" want us to use Public Transit more, come up with something better.
I am home today. Given the heat we are having the air conditioning failed at work yesterday, I was asked to come in yesterday and if possible work most of the day, several staffers were out ill. I did, until 4 p.m. and then the A.C. went.
Our Boss said "everyone go home, stay cool, you'll be paid full wages, stay home tomorrow too, you'll be paid" and the phones were put on auto messages.
So I grabbed the Ferry, caught the bus home and lo and behold there was my sister, saying "do you want to deal with gridlock and go with me to the county fair?" WHY NOT!!!
I was wearing my long sleeve cotton shirt and skirt, comfortable walking shoes, packed my straw hat and black parasol, a large bottle of water and my Nutragena SPF 100 sunblock and off we went. Got there by 6 p.m. missing the worse of the 90 plus degree heat.
As soon as we got there, Sis spotted a manufacturer of Tiki Huts and Bars, I looked at her and asked "What are you thinking?" she said that the back enclosed porch will be perfect for a Lanai, and she wants to do her yard 1950's tropical (slightly kitchy 1950's tropical). And she looked at the out door tubs, found one that is designed to be a rock waterfall.
I groaned inwardly, but then thought, "why not, she has the money that she's worked hard for, everyone is intitled to dream, so why not?"
So she gathered her information took pix's with her camera and then we continued onto the outdoor garden area's that I found them relaxing and quaint, Sis took more pictures "Ideas" she said.
We were amused by the small animal exhibits of chicks, geese, pigeons, baby turkeys, pekin ducks, rabbits and the exotic repetiles. We even had a chance before they packed up to see from one of the nature santuaries that rescues wild animals and helps preserve nature and educate children, a barn owl native to our local, he could not be released in the wild, but to see him so close up and admire his beauty was (again my favorite word) fasinating. I wanted to reach out and pet him but knew that was not a good idea, but the intellegence in his eyes, and how he took everything in and yet not be startled by people. Of course it helps to not startle him either. We looked right into each others eyes and I could see he was taking me all in, analizing me, determining if I was friend or foe.
I took one of their information sheets because I wanted to plan to make an annual or bi-annual donation to the santuary.
Of course we went through all the "hucksters area's" I bought a sign to put in the front window of my house "this house protected by Bad Ass Mutt Security", not that Belladonna is a bad ass mutt, but she does let me know if anyone is at the front or bad door.
And in another area there was a lady selling vintage jewerly, and I found several pieces of mourning jewerley that I fell in love with. But I think I really made out with a couple of purses, one was pink with black trim and silver rivets with a skull design, I purchased that for Coralline, and for myself I found a simple slim black purse with a skull clasp in black metal and black eyes, just the perfect thing for a casual evening out.
The kiddie rides, with one ride that was originally from Michael Jackson's estate, and watching the little kiddies ride the live ponies under an awning to protect them from the sun, there was another pony with it's colt resting in its own corral in plenty of ample shade, with ample water and feed, checked on with regularity by the owners. Just seeing the look of joy on the little toddler's faces riding on the ponies with either Mommy or Daddy walking next to them. The owners had set it up in such a way that it was very safe and comfortable for everyone and the ponies.
Then the 4 H exhibits of sewing, quilting, woodworking, baking, art, some of the quilts were amazing.
We had fun listening for a couple of minutes to an old-fashion country band, as we ate Big Bubba's Bar-B-Que Ribs, nothing like County Fair Food to put on the calories. And we had a chance to see a Hypnotist do her work with over a dozen people from the audience. Although we couldn't stay to see her entire program Sis got her business card. "I want to have an appointment with her to discuss hypnotheraphy" I wondered why Sis was interested in this but if there is one thing I've learned about Sis is that there is always a reason why she is going to do something.
Although very warm, the breeze that came up made everything very comfortable. And no one asked why we had snuck in Belladonna in her carry all. Well to make it even more spoiled for her, because I was so concerned about walking and carrying her in the carry all some months ago with my back injury, Doyle came across a stroller in a pet shop just for "walking one's little baby"
I know Darklings, am I spoiling her? Yes I am, but on a very hot day or any kind of long walking like Flea Markets, Farmer's Markets, Art/Wine/Crafts Festivals and things of that nature it is the perfect and humane thing to do, especially for little dogs. The only place one cannot take a dog or a pet of any kind is Zoo's, because of any airborn transmitted virus.
We walked the mid-way carnival, but I was concerned that the force of almost all the rides would hurt my back, but we had fun talking about how the rides use to look when we were children and had different names.
Then it was time to return home, and thank goodness for air conditioning in cars. I asked Sis why did she want to go to the County Fair? And she replied, "I wanted to do something nearly child-like and simple, and the County Fair was the best way to go. Maybe we'll take a picnic lunch to Tilden Park this weekend while Belladonna is being baby sat and we'll ride the Merry-go-round." I asked her if anything had gone wrong and she said "No, I'm just tired of peoples worries and things and need several mental health days" and that was as good as any explanation.
Yes My Darklings, do simple child-like things, wiggle your toes in the Sand and build Sand castles, take pictures or paint pretty images even if you are not a good painter, neighter was Grandma Moses and her works are work some money. But just do fun pleasureable things, get out of yourself and enjoy life.
Later Darklings
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
Of weather heating up and a BART Strike??~~~~
Well Darklings,
The Bay Area weather is holding true to form, Sunday, Monday and Tuesday, wet and drizzely and now this morning heating up.
Ahhh but the air for the last two days felt so fresh it was wonderful to enjoy it, looking at the garden in the late afternoon and in the early morning just enjoying the air, it cannot be bottled at all, but a pleasure to enjoy, even if I did have to dig out my black trench coat but it was so delicious.
I am still going in to work at noon and leaving around 5 with my Boss, but next week things commute-wise could turn for the worse.
BART employees have voted to strike if their demands are not met, like a 20 or 30 percent pay hike and that BART not the employees pay the full amount into their retirement.
BART is countering with a 4 percent cost of living raise and that the employees need to pay something into their retirement fund. And considering that BART employees are the highest paid mass transit staff in the US I am wondering about their demands....it seems unreasonable.
When I got a raise it was equal to the Cost of Living Amount aka COLA, and all staff had to pay a small percentage into the retirement fund, if they wanted to pay more or have also an alternate source of retirement in additon to their retirement fund that was fine. I do not know of any company (although I'm sure there are a few) that do not pay the entire amount into an employees retirement fund..
And to make it worse, the Bus system's contract runs out on the Same day that BART's does and they are calling to strike just on principal.
Darklings can you imagine the grid lock, the increase in air pollution, the accidents that this will cause? And we have organizations that say "Use Public Transit" well not if Public Transit holds a metaphorical gun to our heads.
The last time this happened was in 1997 and it was HELL. It's hell now when the system breaks down or some idiot decides to use it as a form of suicide (which has happened), and it will be when we are going to have a heat wave. Oh the CHAOS!!!
All the staff have been talking to their Supervisors, and it seems so far that the best way is to car pool and come in during evening hours when communting is in reverse, some staffers who live in the City will go in during the day to field phone calls and explain things. This is the contengecy plans.
But I have a feeling that the Mayors for the areas that BART covers as well as the Govenor (if he has any sense in his 70 plus year old head) will intervene. For now I can only observe and plan.
The good news is that my sister will not have to worry about that since she has to use her car to meet her clients although she will eventually change that. The tenting is done on her home, and now she is working with her contractor about the kitchen and downstairs bathroom. Little "chunks" she says. Brian will stay with us, but he's going to set up a cot in the living room to sleep in at night and then come over in the morning to eat and bathe, he'll be going back and forth between my house and my sisters to oversee the work crew.
Poor man, he's job hunting right now, sending out resume's, going on line and searching, going to job fairs, saving his pennies, staying at my sister's house is very beneficial financially for him. He did have some part time work which helped his bank account, but then that dried up, so he's willing to take on part time again just to build up the coffers.
He said the good thing is his ex-wife was willing to go to court with him to do a "stay of alimony and child support" because of his work situation, but they are working together on this. I asked him why did he and his wife break up and it was because she fell in love with someone else----another woman. Well that did raise my eyebrow but he said it was amicable and he even likes the other person.
So for now all of us are going to see what developes. Now I must go.
Later Darklings
The Bay Area weather is holding true to form, Sunday, Monday and Tuesday, wet and drizzely and now this morning heating up.
Ahhh but the air for the last two days felt so fresh it was wonderful to enjoy it, looking at the garden in the late afternoon and in the early morning just enjoying the air, it cannot be bottled at all, but a pleasure to enjoy, even if I did have to dig out my black trench coat but it was so delicious.
I am still going in to work at noon and leaving around 5 with my Boss, but next week things commute-wise could turn for the worse.
BART employees have voted to strike if their demands are not met, like a 20 or 30 percent pay hike and that BART not the employees pay the full amount into their retirement.
BART is countering with a 4 percent cost of living raise and that the employees need to pay something into their retirement fund. And considering that BART employees are the highest paid mass transit staff in the US I am wondering about their demands....it seems unreasonable.
When I got a raise it was equal to the Cost of Living Amount aka COLA, and all staff had to pay a small percentage into the retirement fund, if they wanted to pay more or have also an alternate source of retirement in additon to their retirement fund that was fine. I do not know of any company (although I'm sure there are a few) that do not pay the entire amount into an employees retirement fund..
And to make it worse, the Bus system's contract runs out on the Same day that BART's does and they are calling to strike just on principal.
Darklings can you imagine the grid lock, the increase in air pollution, the accidents that this will cause? And we have organizations that say "Use Public Transit" well not if Public Transit holds a metaphorical gun to our heads.
The last time this happened was in 1997 and it was HELL. It's hell now when the system breaks down or some idiot decides to use it as a form of suicide (which has happened), and it will be when we are going to have a heat wave. Oh the CHAOS!!!
All the staff have been talking to their Supervisors, and it seems so far that the best way is to car pool and come in during evening hours when communting is in reverse, some staffers who live in the City will go in during the day to field phone calls and explain things. This is the contengecy plans.
But I have a feeling that the Mayors for the areas that BART covers as well as the Govenor (if he has any sense in his 70 plus year old head) will intervene. For now I can only observe and plan.
The good news is that my sister will not have to worry about that since she has to use her car to meet her clients although she will eventually change that. The tenting is done on her home, and now she is working with her contractor about the kitchen and downstairs bathroom. Little "chunks" she says. Brian will stay with us, but he's going to set up a cot in the living room to sleep in at night and then come over in the morning to eat and bathe, he'll be going back and forth between my house and my sisters to oversee the work crew.
Poor man, he's job hunting right now, sending out resume's, going on line and searching, going to job fairs, saving his pennies, staying at my sister's house is very beneficial financially for him. He did have some part time work which helped his bank account, but then that dried up, so he's willing to take on part time again just to build up the coffers.
He said the good thing is his ex-wife was willing to go to court with him to do a "stay of alimony and child support" because of his work situation, but they are working together on this. I asked him why did he and his wife break up and it was because she fell in love with someone else----another woman. Well that did raise my eyebrow but he said it was amicable and he even likes the other person.
So for now all of us are going to see what developes. Now I must go.
Later Darklings
Sunday, June 23, 2013
Of a sudden chilly, drizzly Day~~~~
Well Darklings,
Talk about a sudden change in the weather, it is chilly, and drizzly, overcast, miserable day. Just perfect for a gloomy moody mindset.
I've even fired up the fireplace it is chilly enough.
Yesterday it was so warm and now overnight like it wants to hearld winter back. But I understand it will be hotter than Hades come the end of next week. Typical for the Bay Area.
The people that I purchased the desk from delivered it yesterday evening, and we found a perfect spot for it in the Library. I invited them for coffee and they were grateful for it. They told me that they still had a lot of stuff left over but had to put it back because they knew of the change in the weather, my sister was interested in what they had as well, and I was hoping to see more things but didn't have the chance to.
They told me that they are living in their Grandfather's house for now to sort and go through what they still want to keep and what they will sell, while their son stays at their house. They even had two pinball machines that no one wanted, there was a third but their son wanted that one, so I suggested the pinball museum to see if the museum would be interested.
Over coffee they told us what they had and we suggested what venues to see who would be interested in buying something from them. We also suggested the local flea markets as well, they said it's a good thing they are retired otherwise it would be impossible for them to unload all this stuff. It seems that their Grandfather (husband's grandfather) would go around and buy things and sell it at the flea markets and on e-bay and craig's list, but he suddenly took ill and was rushed to the hospital, and passed away just a few weeks later.
His grandson said it was a kindness for him to go so quickly, but now they have all of this. My sister remarked that his grandfather must have enjoyed the bartering and finding of things, and the man said he did, even more so when his grandmother was alive, she had passed away two years before.
But the man's wife said that maybe this would help him be more involved in things, he'd been looking for something to do since he just retired and he was familar with the flea market trade through his grandfather. She said even she enjoyed all the activity. I was surprised that she said her husband had retired so I asked how old was his grandfather when he passedon and they said 98, he married very young his wife was only 16 and he was 18 when they married, had several children in quick succession, "We are very long lived, and my Dad married young as well, at least I was smart enough to marry at 21".
I told her about one of my favorite antique stores "Gothic Rose Antiques" if they had anything that would meet what the owner wanted that would be another venue.
And for the next two hours had fun suggesting various venues to sell their items, the military, hunting and fishing items at gun shows. Other flea markets, the toys and toy trains at hobby shows. The Wife said that would make for perfect use of their RV and just tow a small trailer holding the items behind it. Since he is a businessman he could see all the possiblities and not have to wear a suit and tie.
But I also asked if I and my sister could make an appointment for next week to see what else they had to offer and once they took a look around my home they could understand. So with that planned they regretfully had to leave but I said for them to call me and I'd treat them to a tour of my home and treat them to dinner. They leaped at the offer.
And so my sister and I relaxed watching "666 Park Avenue" and regret that there would be only 3 more epsiodes left. We enjoyed the speical effects in "The Invisible Man's Revenge" and I loved the evening gown that Gale Sonnegard was wearing. Brian came home right in the middle of the movie, but he had called us that he was on his way, we offered to pick him up at the station but he said he'd take a taxi from the BART station to the house, he didn't feel comfortable with us being out late.
My sister has made some delicious stew, which even now the aroma is wafting about the house, but she said we are going to have to go stove shopping soon, but most likely after the 4th of July holiday. I cannot believe it has gotten so chilly that I needed one of my heavier sweaters. Even Belladonna is bundled up in hers.
And now I need to plan what I will wear for the next few days and lay out those clothes, the weather is enough to make a person sleepy. For that is what I feel like doing, so maybe I can catch a short cat-nap before dinner, since most of it is ready.
Later Darklings
Talk about a sudden change in the weather, it is chilly, and drizzly, overcast, miserable day. Just perfect for a gloomy moody mindset.
I've even fired up the fireplace it is chilly enough.
Yesterday it was so warm and now overnight like it wants to hearld winter back. But I understand it will be hotter than Hades come the end of next week. Typical for the Bay Area.
The people that I purchased the desk from delivered it yesterday evening, and we found a perfect spot for it in the Library. I invited them for coffee and they were grateful for it. They told me that they still had a lot of stuff left over but had to put it back because they knew of the change in the weather, my sister was interested in what they had as well, and I was hoping to see more things but didn't have the chance to.
They told me that they are living in their Grandfather's house for now to sort and go through what they still want to keep and what they will sell, while their son stays at their house. They even had two pinball machines that no one wanted, there was a third but their son wanted that one, so I suggested the pinball museum to see if the museum would be interested.
Over coffee they told us what they had and we suggested what venues to see who would be interested in buying something from them. We also suggested the local flea markets as well, they said it's a good thing they are retired otherwise it would be impossible for them to unload all this stuff. It seems that their Grandfather (husband's grandfather) would go around and buy things and sell it at the flea markets and on e-bay and craig's list, but he suddenly took ill and was rushed to the hospital, and passed away just a few weeks later.
His grandson said it was a kindness for him to go so quickly, but now they have all of this. My sister remarked that his grandfather must have enjoyed the bartering and finding of things, and the man said he did, even more so when his grandmother was alive, she had passed away two years before.
But the man's wife said that maybe this would help him be more involved in things, he'd been looking for something to do since he just retired and he was familar with the flea market trade through his grandfather. She said even she enjoyed all the activity. I was surprised that she said her husband had retired so I asked how old was his grandfather when he passedon and they said 98, he married very young his wife was only 16 and he was 18 when they married, had several children in quick succession, "We are very long lived, and my Dad married young as well, at least I was smart enough to marry at 21".
I told her about one of my favorite antique stores "Gothic Rose Antiques" if they had anything that would meet what the owner wanted that would be another venue.
And for the next two hours had fun suggesting various venues to sell their items, the military, hunting and fishing items at gun shows. Other flea markets, the toys and toy trains at hobby shows. The Wife said that would make for perfect use of their RV and just tow a small trailer holding the items behind it. Since he is a businessman he could see all the possiblities and not have to wear a suit and tie.
But I also asked if I and my sister could make an appointment for next week to see what else they had to offer and once they took a look around my home they could understand. So with that planned they regretfully had to leave but I said for them to call me and I'd treat them to a tour of my home and treat them to dinner. They leaped at the offer.
And so my sister and I relaxed watching "666 Park Avenue" and regret that there would be only 3 more epsiodes left. We enjoyed the speical effects in "The Invisible Man's Revenge" and I loved the evening gown that Gale Sonnegard was wearing. Brian came home right in the middle of the movie, but he had called us that he was on his way, we offered to pick him up at the station but he said he'd take a taxi from the BART station to the house, he didn't feel comfortable with us being out late.
My sister has made some delicious stew, which even now the aroma is wafting about the house, but she said we are going to have to go stove shopping soon, but most likely after the 4th of July holiday. I cannot believe it has gotten so chilly that I needed one of my heavier sweaters. Even Belladonna is bundled up in hers.
And now I need to plan what I will wear for the next few days and lay out those clothes, the weather is enough to make a person sleepy. For that is what I feel like doing, so maybe I can catch a short cat-nap before dinner, since most of it is ready.
Later Darklings
Saturday, June 22, 2013
Of a lazy afternoon~~~~
Well Darklings,
I am all by myself this late afternoon, and it is warm.
I left the house this morning to do some shopping, Sis had to meet a client, Brian was off hunting for a book store in San Francisco, Doyle is out of town so I am left to my own devices.
In some ways they should never leave me alone (as I smirk). I really like to go shopping in the morning while the air is still somewhat fresh and other drivers are not insane. Also where I shop they have from 11 to 2 a truck lunch lot.
I guess the best way is this, food trucks that prepare food, will park in a part of the parking lot at the shopping center that I go to, and the foodies fadies zoom in there like vultures over a Gnu kill, and they do not pay attention to their safety when cars are trying to find a parking spot, its like a grizzly form of playing chicken, only you can get sued if the pedestrian loses, even when it's their fault. ***sigh*** and I thought shopping at Christmas time was insane.
I like to go in the morning to avoid the food trucks and the intense heat of the sun, I have a cooler for anything frozen and in hot weather it's the only way to prevent ice cream from melting.
But on the way home I made the mistake of stopping at an estate sale, and what a magnificent sale, as Doyle would say I was over the moon! I found a Sticklake style desk that is perfect for Coralline for her room if she had to do any home work, or just to have, the price was a steal! And then there it was, a stuffed swordfish head, with mouth agape, PERFECT!!! Yes Darklings I am crazy.
The people who were conducting the sale and I made arrangements to have the desk delivered, I took the swordfish with me. I could not believe the various things that were there, a treasure trove to be delved into!
There was in perfect condition a military parade saddle, uniforms from WWI and II in excellent condition, American Flyer and Marx train accessories pre-WWII or very early 1950's, teletype morse code keys, old candle stick phones, fishing rods of every kind, light, surf, deep water, trout, and fishing reels, a boat, golf clubs of every kind, children's toys from the early 50's, boudior items from the 1930's of which I purchased a few choice items, and a foot stool made from cow horns with red velvet cushion and many more items too numerous to list. I had to resist the foot stool but I was tempted.
But the one thing I could not resist was a ring, 14 kt gold, with a rounded white gold quartz stone clearly showing the gold imbedded in it. The design holding the stone was both delicate and yet substantual, either a woman or a man could wear it, if the man wore it on his pinky finger. I had to have it, and I bought it.
And this was all before 11 a.m.
I gave them directions to my home, went home with the swordfish, ring and the few bedroom items, put away the groceries, the swordfish on the desk away from Belladonna's teeth, and had a light lunch. But the weather was and is so warm, the house felt stuffy, even though I had the windows open.
So I decided to rest in the shade of the sun umbrella, the water fall on the pond splashing, my cd player that plays several discs of relaxing music, my lavendar lemonade, and Belladonna and I fell asleep! I didn't wake up until Sis came home and saw the swordfish on the desk, she deduced that I had found something. So I told her of my finds and about the desk to be delivered, Sis said it might be better to have it in the Library that way Coralline could be with me when she has to do homework while I write out bills and such, that made good sense.
And just a few moments ago the folks called and said they will be by at 7 with the desk, I can hardly wait. Sis has gone to buy ice cream, I didn't put it on the list but she said for such a warm day its worth having for a treat.
Brian called and said to not hold dinner for him as he met some friends in the city and will be home late, so with a lovely cooked chicken salad on romaine, with dried cranberries and a bit of blue cheese and a rasberry vinagrette, chilled apricot halves with ice cream, and more lavendar lemonade we will have a lovely and relaxing dinner.
Then tonight "666 Park Avenue" followed by Svengoolie and "The Invisible Man's Revenge" with Jon Hall, he was a handsome man.
I cannot ask for more.
Later Darklings
I am all by myself this late afternoon, and it is warm.
I left the house this morning to do some shopping, Sis had to meet a client, Brian was off hunting for a book store in San Francisco, Doyle is out of town so I am left to my own devices.
In some ways they should never leave me alone (as I smirk). I really like to go shopping in the morning while the air is still somewhat fresh and other drivers are not insane. Also where I shop they have from 11 to 2 a truck lunch lot.
I guess the best way is this, food trucks that prepare food, will park in a part of the parking lot at the shopping center that I go to, and the foodies fadies zoom in there like vultures over a Gnu kill, and they do not pay attention to their safety when cars are trying to find a parking spot, its like a grizzly form of playing chicken, only you can get sued if the pedestrian loses, even when it's their fault. ***sigh*** and I thought shopping at Christmas time was insane.
I like to go in the morning to avoid the food trucks and the intense heat of the sun, I have a cooler for anything frozen and in hot weather it's the only way to prevent ice cream from melting.
But on the way home I made the mistake of stopping at an estate sale, and what a magnificent sale, as Doyle would say I was over the moon! I found a Sticklake style desk that is perfect for Coralline for her room if she had to do any home work, or just to have, the price was a steal! And then there it was, a stuffed swordfish head, with mouth agape, PERFECT!!! Yes Darklings I am crazy.
The people who were conducting the sale and I made arrangements to have the desk delivered, I took the swordfish with me. I could not believe the various things that were there, a treasure trove to be delved into!
There was in perfect condition a military parade saddle, uniforms from WWI and II in excellent condition, American Flyer and Marx train accessories pre-WWII or very early 1950's, teletype morse code keys, old candle stick phones, fishing rods of every kind, light, surf, deep water, trout, and fishing reels, a boat, golf clubs of every kind, children's toys from the early 50's, boudior items from the 1930's of which I purchased a few choice items, and a foot stool made from cow horns with red velvet cushion and many more items too numerous to list. I had to resist the foot stool but I was tempted.
But the one thing I could not resist was a ring, 14 kt gold, with a rounded white gold quartz stone clearly showing the gold imbedded in it. The design holding the stone was both delicate and yet substantual, either a woman or a man could wear it, if the man wore it on his pinky finger. I had to have it, and I bought it.
And this was all before 11 a.m.
I gave them directions to my home, went home with the swordfish, ring and the few bedroom items, put away the groceries, the swordfish on the desk away from Belladonna's teeth, and had a light lunch. But the weather was and is so warm, the house felt stuffy, even though I had the windows open.
So I decided to rest in the shade of the sun umbrella, the water fall on the pond splashing, my cd player that plays several discs of relaxing music, my lavendar lemonade, and Belladonna and I fell asleep! I didn't wake up until Sis came home and saw the swordfish on the desk, she deduced that I had found something. So I told her of my finds and about the desk to be delivered, Sis said it might be better to have it in the Library that way Coralline could be with me when she has to do homework while I write out bills and such, that made good sense.
And just a few moments ago the folks called and said they will be by at 7 with the desk, I can hardly wait. Sis has gone to buy ice cream, I didn't put it on the list but she said for such a warm day its worth having for a treat.
Brian called and said to not hold dinner for him as he met some friends in the city and will be home late, so with a lovely cooked chicken salad on romaine, with dried cranberries and a bit of blue cheese and a rasberry vinagrette, chilled apricot halves with ice cream, and more lavendar lemonade we will have a lovely and relaxing dinner.
Then tonight "666 Park Avenue" followed by Svengoolie and "The Invisible Man's Revenge" with Jon Hall, he was a handsome man.
I cannot ask for more.
Later Darklings
Of Meeting “interesting people”~~~
Hello Darklings,
If there is one thing I’ve discovered is that a question or a remark can lead to a posting of my thoughts and experiences on this blog.
Dear Rebecca, yes I do meet interesting people, not all the time, but enough, we all do in some way or form, sometimes whether we want to or not.
I think because of Doyle’s, my sister’s and my line of work, it does make for meeting interesting people, because through them and their associates we network to other people and further on.
Because I commute by either BART, Bus, Ferry, Muni etc. to San Francisco, one cannot help but “meet” interesting people, although some people prefer to remain with their own thoughts, but eventually if one travels at the same time as others eventually one strikes up a conversation. Although at some BART stations in the City sometimes I wish I didn’t.
Our “naked acrobat” for one; those are just passing happenstance, to be taken in, observed, mentally commented upon, and talked about to family and friends.
One’s own preferences, likes, hobbies, etc. can help one meet interesting people. It is good to get out into the world, either by just being involved in life, or joining an organization or discovering an interest or hobby. Sometimes one thing can lead to another avenue.
If we remain just focused on our job or just family it can narrow our outlook on life, I remember when I was part of a jury for a murder trial, we had one juror who was a housewife, but her focus was so narrow based only upon her interaction with her in-laws (especially a sister-in-law) that she refused to take in a key prosecutions’ witnesses testimony, especially since that person was present and saw completely the event. The rest of us had to come up with the Wisdom of Solomon to finally get this person to admit why she didn’t believe this person, so we found other testimony from another disinterested party that she could believe and then she admitted that we 11 were correct.
Later after the trial was over, I had a chance to speak to the prosecuting attorney, and was told that in the long run they prefer working housewives, that not only raise a family but also work outside the home and have outside interests. Even a housewife who does not hold down even a part time job, if they are members of a club or hobby society where they interact with people outside the family is preferable, jury selection is a delicate matter. The prosecuting attorney suspected the reason we were taking so long was because of that one juror. He was right.
So having outside interests is very important in ways one cannot imagine.
Doyle loves to do photography, and we are going to convert an old potting shed that has electricity and water in the back part of the deep lot into a dark room for him. Doyle is also a member of a photography club, although there are times he can’t go to the meetings or competitions as often as he would like. But he meets interesting people and those that are just lonely, needy, mean, over gregarious, or fascinating.
My sister because of her work meets many interesting people and has quite a network of colleagues whose company both she and I enjoy, and there are also the same types of people including those that are pompous, self important, self centered, and those that are giving of their time.
A long time ago I took up painting, not that I’m good at it, but I did have a chance to meet other artists and one thing led to another, that is why I go to art show openings recommended to me, it helps me network a bit in the art community.
Music was and is another avenue that has led me to interesting places and things, our interest in old films has also led me down a fascinating path. Those three led me to the Goth Society as well, but I knew that in some ways I was/am too old for the more modern mainstream but it had led to many interesting connections and encounters.
In talking to people I find out about good places to travel to, to eat, drink and enjoy the ambience.
Also because of the way I dress, my vintage car, my interest in dark and funeral things has cause interaction, created new contacts and new experiences.
Sometimes because of unusual events one can meet interesting people, such as Jury Duty, I was on a jury twice, once for a Slander suit and once for a murder trial, I made two good friends at the murder trial, after we finally were able to clear our minds once we had discharged our duties, most people just go their own way, but because we could not discuss the trial except when it was turned over to us finally and only in the jury room, we tended to band together trying to find a good place to eat or car pool, and because of the rules it limited our paths of conversation. So we focused on each other, our work, family, likes, dislikes etc.
After 20 years we still are friends, even though one is now in Nevada and the other is in Seattle, Washington, but it gives me an excellent excuse to travel and they know when they come to the Bay Area they have a place to rest their heads.
I think because my sister’s and Doyle’s’ children are grown and with children of their own and I never had children, it has left us free to explore things.
I am not saying that children can hold us back, no, it is important that one’s focus should be with the child but also through one’s child one can rediscover things that we use to do, never had a chance to do or it is something that has been developed for children’s wonder that a parent can also enjoy. But it also gives a chance for the parent to teach a child to be discerning in their choices as well.
I use to go as a child with my parents and siblings to Oakland’s Children’s Fairyland and allow my imagination to enjoy the wonders there, but like the song “Toyland” once you cross the border into adulthood you can never go back again. But if you have a child to enjoy it with you can briefly see it again through their eyes, everything is geared for a small child, not an adult; because of that it reminds you that you have crossed that border and have different responsibilities
Only with Coralline as she is growing up can I go back with her and her brother’s, although her brothers are too sports oriented to be transported by the imagination of Fairyland, unless it had scary rides. So in time it was just she and I sharing the wonders of this place that was the inspiration for Walt Disney to create Disneyland. In time that avenue will be gone from me, but I don’t despair.
Even now I donate to preserving Children’s Fairyland, so it can continue forever as long as there are children to enjoy it. Its simplicity is perfect for a small child, it does not overwhelm them like Great American, 6 Flags, Disneyland or Resort, etc would. It is perfect for the small child and something I want to see preserved.
I mean Darklings, picture the Wicked Witch Queen of Snow White, and Maleficent of Sleeping Beauty contributing to the preservation of children’s imagination and wonder. That is sometimes how I think of myself, darkly laughing as I write out my check.
We meet many people, through many means, some do not give us that spark that will create interest, some are just dull, some you really want to run away from, and some well one cannot enjoy their company enough, but there are some that puzzle you and you have this double instinct that tells you run away, yet you are fascinated, hypnotize, until you can make up your mind.
And then there are those few, that seem to draw you in but yet you feel off balance, you enjoy their company, their thoughts and yet only a little goes a long way. If one takes in too much one senses it can be like an overdose of some kind. I’m not sure I can explain it any further.
And then sometime as an unexpected gift or treat can make things so pleasurable, like my co-worker, a charming young man who brings me coffee, yesterday he gave me several CD’s, he said he was weeding his collection and had what he felt was a better rendition of Grofe’s Grand Canyon Suite. Now I have a copy on CD but I felt it would be rude to refuse his gift, and then was even more surprised because it included Grofe’s “Mississippi Suite” and his “Death Valley Suite” as well as a bonus recording of him conducting “Cloudburst” from his Grand Canyon. I did not have these in my collection and knew they were not well known or frequently recorded.
Because of his gift it led to us having a lovely conversation during our afternoon break about classical music. And we maybe going to a few concerts as well if our schedules permit, I know Doyle won’t mind, he always worries about me being home all the time when he’s gone.
And even now, late yesterday afternoon, I just stepped out onto my front porch and was treated to my neighbors 3 year old son, dancing in the water sprinklers completely naked and enjoying it. His older sisters 5 and 7 were there dressed in their play clothes but wet. I saw that the young master’s clothes were in a pile getting soaked, I knew my neighbors slightly but didn’t know if they knew what their child was doing, went over and rang the door bell. The look of shock on the Mother’s face was especially interesting, they were suppose to be in the back yard. If nothing else I got to know my neighbors better, it just took a little naked boy to do it.
So Darklings, we all meet interesting people, it just takes time to discover them, some are for lifetimes, some will be as “ships passing in the night”, each an experience to add to one’s life.
And may all of you always meet “interesting people”.
Later Darklings
If there is one thing I’ve discovered is that a question or a remark can lead to a posting of my thoughts and experiences on this blog.
Dear Rebecca, yes I do meet interesting people, not all the time, but enough, we all do in some way or form, sometimes whether we want to or not.
I think because of Doyle’s, my sister’s and my line of work, it does make for meeting interesting people, because through them and their associates we network to other people and further on.
Because I commute by either BART, Bus, Ferry, Muni etc. to San Francisco, one cannot help but “meet” interesting people, although some people prefer to remain with their own thoughts, but eventually if one travels at the same time as others eventually one strikes up a conversation. Although at some BART stations in the City sometimes I wish I didn’t.
Our “naked acrobat” for one; those are just passing happenstance, to be taken in, observed, mentally commented upon, and talked about to family and friends.
One’s own preferences, likes, hobbies, etc. can help one meet interesting people. It is good to get out into the world, either by just being involved in life, or joining an organization or discovering an interest or hobby. Sometimes one thing can lead to another avenue.
If we remain just focused on our job or just family it can narrow our outlook on life, I remember when I was part of a jury for a murder trial, we had one juror who was a housewife, but her focus was so narrow based only upon her interaction with her in-laws (especially a sister-in-law) that she refused to take in a key prosecutions’ witnesses testimony, especially since that person was present and saw completely the event. The rest of us had to come up with the Wisdom of Solomon to finally get this person to admit why she didn’t believe this person, so we found other testimony from another disinterested party that she could believe and then she admitted that we 11 were correct.
Later after the trial was over, I had a chance to speak to the prosecuting attorney, and was told that in the long run they prefer working housewives, that not only raise a family but also work outside the home and have outside interests. Even a housewife who does not hold down even a part time job, if they are members of a club or hobby society where they interact with people outside the family is preferable, jury selection is a delicate matter. The prosecuting attorney suspected the reason we were taking so long was because of that one juror. He was right.
So having outside interests is very important in ways one cannot imagine.
Doyle loves to do photography, and we are going to convert an old potting shed that has electricity and water in the back part of the deep lot into a dark room for him. Doyle is also a member of a photography club, although there are times he can’t go to the meetings or competitions as often as he would like. But he meets interesting people and those that are just lonely, needy, mean, over gregarious, or fascinating.
My sister because of her work meets many interesting people and has quite a network of colleagues whose company both she and I enjoy, and there are also the same types of people including those that are pompous, self important, self centered, and those that are giving of their time.
A long time ago I took up painting, not that I’m good at it, but I did have a chance to meet other artists and one thing led to another, that is why I go to art show openings recommended to me, it helps me network a bit in the art community.
Music was and is another avenue that has led me to interesting places and things, our interest in old films has also led me down a fascinating path. Those three led me to the Goth Society as well, but I knew that in some ways I was/am too old for the more modern mainstream but it had led to many interesting connections and encounters.
In talking to people I find out about good places to travel to, to eat, drink and enjoy the ambience.
Also because of the way I dress, my vintage car, my interest in dark and funeral things has cause interaction, created new contacts and new experiences.
Sometimes because of unusual events one can meet interesting people, such as Jury Duty, I was on a jury twice, once for a Slander suit and once for a murder trial, I made two good friends at the murder trial, after we finally were able to clear our minds once we had discharged our duties, most people just go their own way, but because we could not discuss the trial except when it was turned over to us finally and only in the jury room, we tended to band together trying to find a good place to eat or car pool, and because of the rules it limited our paths of conversation. So we focused on each other, our work, family, likes, dislikes etc.
After 20 years we still are friends, even though one is now in Nevada and the other is in Seattle, Washington, but it gives me an excellent excuse to travel and they know when they come to the Bay Area they have a place to rest their heads.
I think because my sister’s and Doyle’s’ children are grown and with children of their own and I never had children, it has left us free to explore things.
I am not saying that children can hold us back, no, it is important that one’s focus should be with the child but also through one’s child one can rediscover things that we use to do, never had a chance to do or it is something that has been developed for children’s wonder that a parent can also enjoy. But it also gives a chance for the parent to teach a child to be discerning in their choices as well.
I use to go as a child with my parents and siblings to Oakland’s Children’s Fairyland and allow my imagination to enjoy the wonders there, but like the song “Toyland” once you cross the border into adulthood you can never go back again. But if you have a child to enjoy it with you can briefly see it again through their eyes, everything is geared for a small child, not an adult; because of that it reminds you that you have crossed that border and have different responsibilities
Only with Coralline as she is growing up can I go back with her and her brother’s, although her brothers are too sports oriented to be transported by the imagination of Fairyland, unless it had scary rides. So in time it was just she and I sharing the wonders of this place that was the inspiration for Walt Disney to create Disneyland. In time that avenue will be gone from me, but I don’t despair.
Even now I donate to preserving Children’s Fairyland, so it can continue forever as long as there are children to enjoy it. Its simplicity is perfect for a small child, it does not overwhelm them like Great American, 6 Flags, Disneyland or Resort, etc would. It is perfect for the small child and something I want to see preserved.
I mean Darklings, picture the Wicked Witch Queen of Snow White, and Maleficent of Sleeping Beauty contributing to the preservation of children’s imagination and wonder. That is sometimes how I think of myself, darkly laughing as I write out my check.
We meet many people, through many means, some do not give us that spark that will create interest, some are just dull, some you really want to run away from, and some well one cannot enjoy their company enough, but there are some that puzzle you and you have this double instinct that tells you run away, yet you are fascinated, hypnotize, until you can make up your mind.
And then there are those few, that seem to draw you in but yet you feel off balance, you enjoy their company, their thoughts and yet only a little goes a long way. If one takes in too much one senses it can be like an overdose of some kind. I’m not sure I can explain it any further.
And then sometime as an unexpected gift or treat can make things so pleasurable, like my co-worker, a charming young man who brings me coffee, yesterday he gave me several CD’s, he said he was weeding his collection and had what he felt was a better rendition of Grofe’s Grand Canyon Suite. Now I have a copy on CD but I felt it would be rude to refuse his gift, and then was even more surprised because it included Grofe’s “Mississippi Suite” and his “Death Valley Suite” as well as a bonus recording of him conducting “Cloudburst” from his Grand Canyon. I did not have these in my collection and knew they were not well known or frequently recorded.
Because of his gift it led to us having a lovely conversation during our afternoon break about classical music. And we maybe going to a few concerts as well if our schedules permit, I know Doyle won’t mind, he always worries about me being home all the time when he’s gone.
And even now, late yesterday afternoon, I just stepped out onto my front porch and was treated to my neighbors 3 year old son, dancing in the water sprinklers completely naked and enjoying it. His older sisters 5 and 7 were there dressed in their play clothes but wet. I saw that the young master’s clothes were in a pile getting soaked, I knew my neighbors slightly but didn’t know if they knew what their child was doing, went over and rang the door bell. The look of shock on the Mother’s face was especially interesting, they were suppose to be in the back yard. If nothing else I got to know my neighbors better, it just took a little naked boy to do it.
So Darklings, we all meet interesting people, it just takes time to discover them, some are for lifetimes, some will be as “ships passing in the night”, each an experience to add to one’s life.
And may all of you always meet “interesting people”.
Later Darklings
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