Hello Darklings,
Several of you inquired what does an elder Goth wear when lounging around well I'm going to post a few images of what does work and what doesn't.
First get a pair of these, they are called "mules" and either they will have bows in the shape of a ribbon flower or fluffy marabou, vintage one's are always nice.
Second be prepared to seduce your man, there maybe snow on the roof but let him know there's still a fire in the furnace, so be glamorous yet comfortable.
Think of the Golden age of Hollywood, at least under these outfits the corset is off and you can breathe free and yet be beautiful.
The only time you should dress like this is if you are dying from the flu or a very nasty cold, it is the only time I permit myself to be sloppy, because you never know if you have to make a hasty dash to the bathroom.
And always have a very comfortable yet sexy chair to relax in.
Because although you are an Elder Goth, you are always a lady, with poise and dignity and a sexiness that empowers you.
Later Darklings