Thursday, July 30, 2015
Of Heat waves and updates and insanity~~~~
We have been having another bad heat wave, it has been up in the triple digits inland, like 109 in Redding and 105 in Concord. I have been using the drip system on what plants I have, but only in the evening and at night.
I've even put up bird baths of water in the shady areas of the garden and even for humming birds, I have this wonder sage bush called Autumn Sage and the hummingbirds love it, exotic plants I have none, the heat would kill them. So I switched to lavender, and other plants that can tolerate this heat, my roses are surviving, they've been getting grey water, as well as the Bay tree and the fruit trees, my water cisterns are dry, so I'm having a specialist check them out for cracks and such.
The heat was so bad that we slept outside on the screened in back porch, my brother has a similar porch on his house and has done the same thing, but he's not home enough for the children to camp out in it as they have been traveling hither and yon, to various historic spots in their RV, but mostly on the coast because of the heat, both he and my sister in law took 6 weeks off for vacation for the children to enjoy. And with Wi Fi at a number of the camp grounds they can stay in touch with their respective offices for just in case.
They will be back next week (I think) and in time to get the children ready for school, the twins don't want to think about it, Coraline and Christopher are sort of concerned and excited about it. The parents? Well what do you think parents would do when school is back in session?
The wild fires around the state is worrisome, especially when they are close to those historic towns in the Gold Country area. It doesn't take much for something to happen, perhaps the coolest areas is Daley City and San Francisco, thank goodness the marine layer has come back in. But for how long I'm not sure.
Poor Belladonna and Weinerdog, it's so hot that we have to leave them either at a doggie day care or with my elderly neighbor if we have to go somewhere and can't take them. What surprised me at my elderly neighbors house is she got a plastic pool that kiddies use and put water in it and has it in the shade and both dogs took to it to play in with their smaller tennis balls and chew toys (not cloth) She told me that it was like watching children play. Then in the evening when they've been picked up she uses the water to irrigate her herb garden. That's how I got my Autumn Sage.
Of course the heat has made for insanity as well, our neighbors crazy son whom we call "Crazy" went off the rails again, calling the police 3 times in 7 days is too much, but I thought we could not do a restraining order----BUT----if some of you remember when I talked about "Officer Cutie" (he's married folks ---darn!) well he came out on the last call and said that there is such a thing called a "No Harassment" or "No Contact" order, this is used on stalkers and other non-close to family situations I think some places call it a "Stay-Away" order, and we do qualify to submit that, whether it will be granted it up to the Judge, so we're going to get the paperwork and I need to get some of the copies of the Incident Reports put together, now it will depend upon if I want to do it myself or have my lawyer do it, but from what I've seen it's almost "do it yourself". But at least now I have a "tool" that if granted, I can use.
And if "Crazy" violates it, he will be arrested and I hope get put in a place where he'll get the help he needs.
Since the last incident things have been quiet, I hope it does, it almost seems to come in waves really, 6 to 8 weeks of quiet then 7 to 10 days of insanity. I guess it takes that long for the "voices in his head" to get really loud.
And we are going to have a Blue Moon tomorrow night----my Grandmother use to call it a wishing moon, make a wish to banish a problem she'd say. I think I'm going to do that.
Oh and Halloween is just 90 days away----Oh HAPPY, HAPPY, JOY, JOY!!!!
Unless we get a very serious El Nino---although that would put a kibosh on Halloween---again happy happy joy joy---we need WATER!!!
A friend of mine sent me this funny thing about if all 50 states were people in a bar what would they be like and what would they drink----I found it very funny, I'll post it in my next post.
Oh and I KNOW what I want for Christmas----Dita Von Teese's latest book "You Beauty Mark" it's coming out in December, and I WANT a copy!! Hint, Hint to Doyle (eye-wink) Yes my Darklings, Dita is coming out with her own beauty book, if nothing else I want it for human interest factor to see what she says about things. Of course we all have our own ways of maintaining our looks, for me it's to avoid the sun between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m. and use Neutragena Sun Block at SPF Factor 100, yes they do make it. And there are other things as well.
But one factor is one's own DNA you cannot fight that, but you can try.
Who knows Darklings, even for the Glamour Goth you can always study the tips from the pro's.
Later Darklings
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
Of Medical set-backs and progress~~~~
Well I had a nasty medical set back, and it was very rough. The cough that I was developing turned into fever and chills. My temp went to 102.
Now usually if it's the flu or a cold the doctor's say "Bed rest, fluids, aspirin" and I did have my flu shot a few months ago. But whatever this was was affecting my breathing as well. And since my ribs and other parts of my body were seriously bruised, my doctor didn't want to take any chances so to the hospital I was admitted.
This did throw all the scheduling off, but both Ella and Louise were willing to stand by, they even came to the hospital to make sure I would eat and take my meds. Ella in the morning and Louise in the afternoon, this took pressure off of my sister and Doyle and they could stay in touch with them as well if any changes happened.
It took nearly 5 days for the fever to break, and my appetite was gone, anything that even looked like food I could not stomach, so to prevent de-hydration I had an IV to make sure that would not happen. I slept, coughed, dry heaved, moaned, sweated----I was not at my glamorous. And I lost over 8 pounds, not a good way to lose weight.
The fever broke on Saturday, and I looked at Louise saying "I wish I could have some won-ton soup", well she snuck some in but said for me to only have the broth, I felt like a baby bird, happy for it. Sunday we tried a little walking I was weak, but the Doctor was happy, by Tuesday he said I could go home today.
And although I'm weak I've made a little progress. I cannot eat much but I can stomach things now provided it's light, even a poached egg is a wonderful banquet for me.
My bruising is healing nicely and so are the cuts although there is one on my face that might require a little cosmetic surgery to prevent scar tissue.
My Lawyer has been in touch with Doyle and it looks like it will be at least 4 months to have a hearing, the stupid man refuses to settle out of court insisting he's in the right when everything including his lawyer knows that this other driver is going to lose.
I've been feeling very un-glamorous because of this but Doyle knows the way to encourage my heart. He found a number of Dita Von Teese interviews on You Tube, I just saw one now where she says "How boring is the world going to be if we have to make everything Politically Correct." And she is so right my Darklings.
You can be Politically Incorrect provided that you do it with grace and elegance, and not be crass.
And now I must lie down Louise says I'm pushing it and she's right.
Before I forget I found a photo of one of the roses that will be soon blooming in my garden----enjoy!
Later Darklings
Saturday, May 19, 2012
A Perfect Motto
I came across a wonderful quote that I think all Elder Goths, Femme Fatales and other darkly wicked Diva's should have as their motto.
Dita Von Teese was asked to describe her idea of what a woman should look like and the wicked darling replied:
"A femme fatale is always chic, a little wicked, edgy and dark, and has her own dress code she sticks to.”
And I think that is perfect for us.
Speaking of being chic, and a little wicked, I went to a wonderful Vintage Fashion Show last night, it was wonderful with music, a vintage fashion contest, drinks, and little munchies as well as beautiful vintage clothing.
I found a wonderful black hat with rhinestones that is perfect for my clothing style for early 50's, it can be worn all year round, summer and winter. And gloves in a deep reddish maroon color so very hard to find but was in style in the 50's.
I'm on their mailing list for their next event, how wonderful to have something so close by.
So I will make Dita's remark my motto and I think any wicked lady should too.
Until later Darklings



